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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsAbsolutely FANTASTIC Letter to the Editor; "Leaving Defiance (Ohio) County"
https://www.crescent-news.com/opinion/letters_to_editor/letters-to-the-editor/article_97bfed33-ace4-4292-bdec-bf8e1808fa77.htmlMy God this is a great LTE.
"I am one of many young adults who plan to leave Defiance County as soon as I am able. That decision did not come lightly, but it has become clear.
People often ask why so many young adults leave small towns like ours. The answer is not complicated. It is not just about jobs. It is about mindset.
Defiance has built a culture that resists growth while simultaneously complaining about stagnation. New ideas are often treated as threats. Different perspectives are labeled as disruptive. Progress is framed as unnecessary change. When a community repeatedly chooses the same leadership, the same priorities, and the same narrow vision for its future, it should not be surprised when nothing improves."
Rest is at the link.
If you stomach it, check out the LTE The Crescent News ran after this one. Combined they are a "Mic Drop" on MAGAt 'Murika
My God!! This young woman speaks for me.
Ocelot II
(129,759 posts)maxrandb
(17,293 posts)I don't know how to make it available for all, but it's a shame, because it is great.
If the DU rules about 4 paragraphs don't apply to letters to the editor, I will post the hole letter and delete the link.
leftieNanner
(16,139 posts)hunter
(40,487 posts)You may have read other articles from this newspaper or others owned by the same publisher.
I was surprised Cal Thomas is still around. He vanished from our "Left Coast" newspapers years ago.
UpInArms
(54,433 posts)This letter definitely describes my area, as well
maxrandb
(17,293 posts)Last edited Mon Feb 9, 2026, 04:24 PM - Edit history (2)
It's in The Crescent News
Leaving Defiance County
I am one of many young adults who plan to leave Defiance County as soon as I am able. That decision did not come lightly, but it has become clear.
People often ask why so many young adults leave small towns like ours. The answer is not complicated. It is not just about jobs. It is about mindset.
Defiance has built a culture that resists growth while simultaneously complaining about stagnation. New ideas are often treated as threats. Different perspectives are labeled as disruptive. Progress is framed as unnecessary change. When a community repeatedly chooses the same leadership, the same priorities, and the same narrow vision for its future, it should not be surprised when nothing improves.
Young professionals notice when opportunity feels limited. They notice when innovation is discouraged. They notice when conversations about economic diversification, inclusivity, or modernization are dismissed before they can even happen. And they notice when frustration about wages, affordability and quality of life is directed outward rather than inward.
We cannot keep making the same civic and cultural choices and expect different outcomes. We cannot resist change and then wonder why growth never arrives. Communities reflect the values they consistently reward. If conformity is more comfortable than curiosity, and tradition is valued more than forward thinking, then ambition will always feel out of place.
Living in a place that feels small-minded is exhausting. It is exhausting to watch potential leave because it cannot breathe here. It is exhausting to hear complaints about money, opportunity, and amenities from the very people who resist the shifts that could attract them.
This is not written to be polite. It is written to be honest.
If Defiance wants to stop the steady drain of talent and energy, it will have to confront a difficult truth: economic vitality and cultural openness go hand in hand. Without one, the other will never fully materialize.
Until there is a genuine willingness to expand the way this community thinks about growth, opportunity and inclusion, many of us will continue to build our futures elsewhere."
Ocelot II
(129,759 posts)mountain grammy
(28,814 posts)AllaN01Bear
(28,927 posts)maxsolomon
(38,408 posts)Last edited Mon Feb 9, 2026, 02:41 PM - Edit history (1)
This is the eternal story of rural America - a provincial mindset stifles the open minded youth. MAGA's weaponized xenophobia and transphobia exacerbates the problem.
The exceptions are small towns with Liberal Arts colleges - like Athens OH, or Yellow Springs (RIP Antioch).
She'll head for a liberal bubble like Chicago, Cleveland, maybe even Cincy (within the city limits it's plenty Liberal).
yardwork
(69,108 posts)BluesRunTheGame
(1,958 posts)Defiance is a relatively safe community with a low cost of living.
DBoon
(24,826 posts)crud
(1,230 posts)the letter following asserts that the earth is 6,000 years old. ugh, so much for forward thinking.
maxrandb
(17,293 posts)Last edited Mon Feb 9, 2026, 04:25 PM - Edit history (1)
I am becoming more and more convinced that, 6,000 years ago, the wealthy and powerful held a summit.
"Look, the poor and the unwashed masses are always complaining and demanding stuff. Food, shelter, security, protection under the law, honest wages for their work, etc.
What if we gave them an invisible sky being that was responsible for EVERYTHING?
If we can convince enough of them that their true reward comes in the afterlife, they won't pay attention to how much we're screwing them over in this one. "
Betty Boom
(413 posts)Same mindset, different state. But I know exactly what shes talking about. Its the conservative mindset of not ever wanting anything to change. And then bitching about it when people leave because the community is so resistant to change. So all they end up doing is getting change anyway as their towns shrivel up and die. Drive through that part of northern Ohio and northern Indiana. Its small town after small town with empty storefronts where the only thing to do on a Saturday night is to go to the high school basketball game. And the kids cant wait to get the hell out of town once they graduate, unless theyre total losers like their parents.
AllaN01Bear
(28,927 posts)Ilsa
(64,030 posts)barbtries
(31,223 posts)couldn't see a thing.
maxrandb
(17,293 posts)barbtries
(31,223 posts)i was going to check that out per your recommendation. thanks!
WalkingMan1959
(7 posts)I worked with young students for 30yr in NC Community College System. I would encourage them to get out of their home town and live somewhere else and see a different side of their world. You can always comeback in 20-30 years and help take care of your parents.
dedl67
(193 posts)There has been a trend over generations of talented, ambitious young people leaving small towns and rural areas for large cities, where they have more scope for their ambitions. This leaves fewer of the bright, talented people in these small towns who would contribute heavily to their vitality. These places become even less attractive, spurring further exodus. This vicious cycle leads to differences in the demographic composition of small-town and urban America, which has spilled over into divergent political views
