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Polybius

(22,190 posts)
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 09:31 PM 10 hrs ago

Several Women Who Dated Graham Platner Recall 'Unsettling' Behavior

Source: NY Times

On Tuesday evening, after a whirlwind day in Washington, Graham Platner, the Democratic candidate for Senate in Maine, rushed home.

Rumors were spreading from Portland to the Potomac about Mr. Platner’s messy personal life, after news reports that he had sent sexual messages to women while married. Democratic senators were pressing him about whether more damaging revelations were coming. Journalists were swarming, staking out his hometown.

Amid the turmoil, Mr. Platner worked the phones, rolling through calls to ex-girlfriends who might publicly acknowledge that while he may have been a bad boyfriend, he was, in fact, a decent guy.

In interviews with The New York Times on Wednesday, several women did just that, describing Mr. Platner as a fun and caring partner, and saying they felt safe with him. Some remain friends with him to this day, years after their relationships ended.

Read more: https://www.nytimes.com/2026/06/04/us/politics/platner-maine-senate-girlfriends-relationships.html

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Several Women Who Dated Graham Platner Recall 'Unsettling' Behavior (Original Post) Polybius 10 hrs ago OP
What about the guy who cheated on his pregnant wife with a porn star, then paid for her silence????? groundloop 10 hrs ago #1
Is that the bar? RandySF 10 hrs ago #3
Exactly PatSeg 9 hrs ago #7
Or is Susan Collins the bar? You want 6 more years of her? paleotn 9 hrs ago #12
THANK YOU Skittles 7 hrs ago #18
David Costello (D) RandySF 10 hrs ago #2
X1000 yorkster 10 hrs ago #5
Maine voters decide not DU pundits duckworth969 9 hrs ago #6
Where did I tell anyone how to vote? RandySF 9 hrs ago #10
Above. paleotn 9 hrs ago #13
I was informing RandySF 9 hrs ago #14
What you're advocating is 6 more years of Susan Collins. You just don't know it. paleotn 9 hrs ago #15
yup Skittles 7 hrs ago #20
This message was self-deleted by its author Skittles 7 hrs ago #21
this is a POLITICAL BOARD Skittles 7 hrs ago #19
I don't understand it PatSeg 9 hrs ago #9
Many of us are in trouble if we accept the testimony of exes in the court of public opinion. bluedigger 10 hrs ago #4
Republican agents pulling out ALL the stops dave99 9 hrs ago #8
That's exactly what it oldmanlynn 8 hrs ago #16
He didn't know it was Nazi tatoo, I don't doc03 9 hrs ago #11
This is middle school Mickey Mouse shit NNguyenMD 8 hrs ago #17

groundloop

(13,965 posts)
1. What about the guy who cheated on his pregnant wife with a porn star, then paid for her silence?????
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 09:38 PM
10 hrs ago

PatSeg

(53,736 posts)
7. Exactly
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 10:15 PM
9 hrs ago

I find the comparison rather disturbing. Obviously no one is perfect, but many of the allegations are unsettling.

I am surprised that his campaign didn't do any oppo research early on, as they didn't appear to be prepared for so many of the accusations. Granted I know much of them could be fabricated by republican operatives.

Obviously, I hope we win the seat and if it is Platner, I hope he lives up to his promises.

paleotn

(22,885 posts)
12. Or is Susan Collins the bar? You want 6 more years of her?
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 10:42 PM
9 hrs ago

That's the choice Mainers have. Our approval is unnecessary.

RandySF

(87,035 posts)
2. David Costello (D)
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 09:38 PM
10 hrs ago

David, whose family was not well-off and who, like many in Maine, began work early and worked his way through the University of Maine, George Washington University, and the London School of Economics. And who served for more than 30 years in senior-level government and non-government positions, both in the United States, including in Maine, and abroad – implementing and managing; not simply legislating or talking about complex multi-million-dollar programs and operations.

Programs and operations that included working closely with U.S. Army, the United Nations, and foreign aid organizations overseas – and various state and local government agencies, businesses, and non-governmental organizations in Maine, Maryland, and elsewhere.

Programs and operations that resulted in: elections, campaign finance, and motor vehicle safety reforms in Maine; improved public schools and expanded assistance to children, youth and families at risk in Baltimore; the implementation of ambitious job creation, education, healthcare, crime eduction, and environmental protection programs in Maryland; and the completion of more than 4,000 peace and community building projects in conflict-torn Cambodia, Haiti, Bosnia, Croatia, Kosovo, and Serbia.

The contrasts between Senator Collins’s and David’s backgrounds and public service records couldn’t be starker, and the decision regarding whom to support in 2026 should be an easy one.



https://www.costelloforsenate.com/


RandySF

(87,035 posts)
10. Where did I tell anyone how to vote?
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 10:33 PM
9 hrs ago

Bernie and Hasan can go to Maine but I can’t mention another Democratic candidate?

RandySF

(87,035 posts)
14. I was informing
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 10:48 PM
9 hrs ago

But I have as much right to advocate as anyone who travels to another state to endorse.

Response to RandySF (Reply #14)

PatSeg

(53,736 posts)
9. I don't understand it
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 10:17 PM
9 hrs ago

For what we know of him, Costello sounds like an ideal candidate.

bluedigger

(17,458 posts)
4. Many of us are in trouble if we accept the testimony of exes in the court of public opinion.
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 09:49 PM
10 hrs ago

You guys married to your high school sweetheart for five decades can just STFU.

oldmanlynn

(863 posts)
16. That's exactly what it
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 11:41 PM
8 hrs ago

And I hope that Democrats don’t fall for it and decide to try to get him to leave the race in the circular firing squad. people in Maine appreciate him

NNguyenMD

(1,337 posts)
17. This is middle school Mickey Mouse shit
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 11:58 PM
8 hrs ago

Democracy is under threat and people are talking about ex girlfriends

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