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sakabatou

(46,344 posts)
Tue Feb 22, 2022, 04:01 AM Feb 2022

Anyone else have problems being in a loud room?

I was in an office because my house had its internet being down. So, I went to an office my mom works at, but I had to leave after 10 minutes because it was so loud, with everyone talking.

I had music on through my earbuds, but even then it was too much.

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Anyone else have problems being in a loud room? (Original Post) sakabatou Feb 2022 OP
It agitates my anxiety. RandySF Feb 2022 #1
Yes, that bothers me as well. SergeStorms Feb 2022 #2
Cacophony makes it harder to find one's "zone", a must to achieve personal efficacy. jaxexpat Feb 2022 #3
I can't stand it NJCher Feb 2022 #4
Yep PJMcK Feb 2022 #5
I don't event like going to restaurants any more because of the noise. Chainfire Feb 2022 #6
I grew up in a large very loud family. hunter Feb 2022 #7

SergeStorms

(20,822 posts)
2. Yes, that bothers me as well.
Tue Feb 22, 2022, 04:21 AM
Feb 2022

I find it difficult to concentrate on my work, or do anything productive.

Of course I've always been a peace and quiet type of guy anyway. Loud parties with lots of people talking, and crowds in general.

I'd much rather be by myself or a few loved ones, where you can communicate without shouting at each other.

NJCher

(43,540 posts)
4. I can't stand it
Tue Feb 22, 2022, 06:54 AM
Feb 2022

When I go to any store, I always wear headphones, the kind that muffles sound. People let their kids shriek. This helps a lot.

PJMcK

(25,126 posts)
5. Yep
Tue Feb 22, 2022, 08:42 AM
Feb 2022

I hate crowds, too. Pretty funny since I've lived in NYC for most of my life.

My reactions to crowds and noise aren't debilitating, thankfully. But I just don't like them.

 

Chainfire

(17,757 posts)
6. I don't event like going to restaurants any more because of the noise.
Tue Feb 22, 2022, 09:20 AM
Feb 2022

It gets worse as I get older and my hearing is not as acute as it used to be. In a noisy room, I can't have a conversation because I can't understand what is being said. I appreciate the notion that silence is golden.

hunter

(40,862 posts)
7. I grew up in a large very loud family.
Tue Feb 22, 2022, 11:08 AM
Feb 2022

That's probably how I learned to turn off the noise in my head. It's almost like closing my eyes to what I'm seeing.

This ability has gotten me into a lot of trouble. People often think I'm deliberately ignoring them.

For very loud social experiences I can't avoid, for example rock concerts and certain amusement park rides, I wear foam earplugs.

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