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In reply to the discussion: Carol passed last night.... [View all]

cynannmarie

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43. I am amazed and impressed that you are able to be so productive
Sun Mar 4, 2012, 04:14 PM
Mar 2012

so soon. My husband and I have talked about how we each have imagined what it would be like for the other if/when either of us passes on first and it seems that we both anticipate a long dark tunnel of grief that would be daunting and paralyzing. But of course one never knows how one would actually react in advance to an experience not had before. But hearing how you are coping is very inspiring, encouraging and a testament to resilience. I love hearing the details of how you are managing--it's very illuminating. And reading about Carol's stain glass reminds me of the photos you posted awhile back of the beautiful little chapel you built with her stained glass windows in it. Do you visit that special sanctuary often?

I do glass work myself but not leaded glass (I do fused glass)-- otherwise I would offer to buy some of the glass, but the 2 types are not compatible. I am sure you can sell the stuff to someone who does that craft, as I do know that the materials are very expensive and most artisans of that medium would be more than happy to buy the glass at a good price. Same for the tools to someone starting out. Glass work is very popular again.

Keep us posted on how and what you're doing! We can learn a lot from you... and we care about your well being.

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I am sorry for your loss. thecrow Feb 2012 #1
I am so sorry for your loss Irishonly Feb 2012 #2
My condolences. n/t FSogol Feb 2012 #3
I am so very sorry, Uben shrike Feb 2012 #4
I'm so sorry, Uben. mwdem Feb 2012 #5
I am so sorry for your loss maddezmom Feb 2012 #6
I can't begin to express my sorry. cmd Feb 2012 #7
I am very sorry ... YvonneCa Feb 2012 #8
I am so sorry. murielm99 Feb 2012 #9
Oh, I'm so very sorry for your loss. Your care and love of Carol was sinkingfeeling Feb 2012 #10
My heartfelt warm thoughts to you. CurtEastPoint Feb 2012 #11
i'm so sorry. barbtries Feb 2012 #12
Ar dheas Dé go raibh a anam. Irishonly Feb 2012 #13
I am so sorry for your loss cate94 Feb 2012 #14
Oh, I wish I knew what to tell you. UrbScotty Feb 2012 #15
My heart hurts KC Feb 2012 #16
RIP, Carol. BlueIris Feb 2012 #17
I'm so sorry for your loss. Sienna86 Feb 2012 #18
Oh, no... Hepburn Feb 2012 #19
We're sorry for your loss jumptheshadow Feb 2012 #20
I am touched by the responses...... Uben Feb 2012 #21
Uben, mwdem Feb 2012 #22
no advice, just checking in to see how you're doing? maddezmom Feb 2012 #27
My dear Ulben Irishonly Feb 2012 #31
I love listening to whipoorwills Uben Feb 2012 #32
Keep doing that. mwdem Feb 2012 #33
Oh, Uben, I am SO VERY Sorry your dear Lady left this life.... Ecumenist Feb 2012 #23
Oh Uben. I'm so sorry. Tracer Feb 2012 #24
I am SO Sorry . . . Suziq Feb 2012 #25
She is with God now DreamSmoker Feb 2012 #26
I am so sorry. JohnnyLib2 Feb 2012 #28
heartbreaking cynannmarie Feb 2012 #29
You can bank on it! Uben Feb 2012 #30
Just checking in on you... Hepburn Feb 2012 #34
Uben, I'm so very sorry to read this and hope that the memories ... slipslidingaway Feb 2012 #35
How are you doing Uben? Irishonly Feb 2012 #36
I'm doing fine..... Uben Feb 2012 #37
I am glad to hear it Irishonly Feb 2012 #38
I'm so glad to read that you're doing okay. I was really thinking about you and I Ecumenist Mar 2012 #40
Uben, checking in on you ... cynannmarie Mar 2012 #39
Moi? Uben Mar 2012 #41
We keep going forward no matter how difficult it is Irishonly Mar 2012 #42
I am amazed and impressed that you are able to be so productive cynannmarie Mar 2012 #43
Well, I'm still doing fine..... Uben Mar 2012 #44
Uben Irishonly Mar 2012 #45
Thank you for your kind words.... Uben Mar 2012 #46
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