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120. Have you ever been in an abusive marriage or relationship?

Fri Jun 5, 2026, 02:45 PM

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I have. Some battered women cover the bruises or lie about how they happened out of fear and or embarrassment. I did. I thought I had a concussion once and said I fell instead of saying that during a fit of anger my ex kicked a wooden stool across the room and it hit me hard in my forehead.

Just saying… some women do not report the incidents… it happens.

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You bragging, asshole? displacedvermoter Yesterday #1

You made my day!.................. Lovie777 Yesterday #2

I guess we take our friends where we can... displacedvermoter Yesterday #3

Not a good guy Bettie Yesterday #5

We shouldnt define people with just the worst things theyve done in their lives SSJVegeta Yesterday #12

He seems to have changed Bettie Yesterday #13

Hear, hear peppertree Yesterday #30

Not sure if he's a good guy, but... Happy Hoosier Yesterday #6

Like we embraced Dick Cheney... displacedvermoter Yesterday #9

Cheney isn't really a good comparison. Happy Hoosier Yesterday #14

They wheeled his evil old ass out in the final days displacedvermoter Yesterday #70

We've been through this before, you know he did not attend any events with Harris. Nobody "embraced" betsuni Yesterday #100

The enemy of my enemy can be a friend. ToxMarz Yesterday #22

Don't forget, we had David Brock on "our side" running smear campaigns in our primaries. Hassin Bin Sober Yesterday #62

the saying goes, takes one to know one eShirl Yesterday #4

Does He Live In Maine? ColoringFool Yesterday #7

So that two of the women are Democrats has no weight? EdmondDantes_ Yesterday #8

I give them lots of weight. They spoke about his dark moods, anger issues etc. same things he has Nanjeanne Yesterday #10

You don't consider yanking women around or blocking them in rooms violence? EdmondDantes_ Yesterday #16

I do consider this violence towards this woman. It was a woman. And bad behavior. It is what Nanjeanne Yesterday #19

He clearly said that never happened, and that woman is a republican operative working with and for the BComplex Yesterday #40

Problematic is children crying themselves to sleep because they are hungry questionseverything Yesterday #49

Please be factual. AloeVera Yesterday #88

Have you ever been in an abusive marriage or relationship? sheshe2 Yesterday #120

But not one woman claimed he ever hit, injured or bruised them!! AloeVera Yesterday #124

Thank you, Aloe Vera. sheshe2 Yesterday #132

I'm so sorry Just_Vote_Dem Yesterday #133

Thank you. sheshe2 23 hrs ago #134

Very true Just_Vote_Dem 22 hrs ago #142

I am very glad your friend made it. sheshe2 22 hrs ago #144

I give the most weight to what his wife said. GoodRaisin Yesterday #128

Right now, at the very least crippling Republican power is more important to me. RoeVWade Yesterday #11

There will always be this kind of choice when someone is speaking to power the way he is. MadameButterfly Yesterday #106

THIS!! AloeVera Yesterday #116

The NY Times piece didn't really uncover anything new Quiet Em Yesterday #15

Sorry ABC123Easy Yesterday #17

So, let's see if I got this right: You want six more years of Susan Collins? MineralMan Yesterday #20

Nope ABC123Easy Yesterday #21

Uh-huh...I see... MineralMan Yesterday #23

Don't think you do ABC123Easy Yesterday #25

His Tattoo? I haven't seen it. MineralMan Yesterday #26

So, let's see if I got this right: ABC123Easy Yesterday #28

LOL! MineralMan Yesterday #34

Clearly ABC123Easy Yesterday #39

Ever heard of Derek Black, Christian Picciolini, Arno Michaelis, and on and on? pat_k Yesterday #58

Good for you ABC123Easy Yesterday #60

Why is it so hard? LAS14 Yesterday #74

I've already answered this question today. I'm absolutely not trying to sway anymone but I will defend my opinions. ABC123Easy Yesterday #77

Can you point me to where you answered this question? nt LAS14 Yesterday #82

I will not ABC123Easy Yesterday #91

Strawman designed to NOT answer the question posted to you. AZLD4Candidate Yesterday #44

Nope ABC123Easy Yesterday #47

Red herring. . .strawman. . .avoidance of a simple question is still a logical fallacy AZLD4Candidate Yesterday #68

My silence? ABC123Easy Yesterday #71

Cannot have people who aren't pristine, don'cha know? RetiredParatrooper Yesterday #95

That's quite an assumption. 2naSalit Yesterday #117

I didn't know Mossfern Yesterday #31

Well ABC123Easy Yesterday #32

Many many people Mossfern Yesterday #50

Well ABC123Easy Yesterday #54

So platner's tattoo is unforgivable but Collins making 8-9 million bucks in the stock market questionseverything Yesterday #65

Hopefully there's not too many Republicans on DU. ABC123Easy Yesterday #79

There are paid disrupters anywhere you go online questionseverything Yesterday #83

Do I need to do that? ABC123Easy Yesterday #92

You are supporting the repub anytime you dis our front runner questionseverything Yesterday #94

BS ABC123Easy Yesterday #96

Neither is the front runner RetiredParatrooper Yesterday #99

I'm ABC123Easy Yesterday #105

If are supporting two democrats in the primary who couldn't fund a commercial if they put their resources together questionseverything Yesterday #102

Sounds like ABC123Easy Yesterday #103

I'm anti murder, I'm anti starving people behind a wall questionseverything Yesterday #110

Well ABC123Easy Yesterday #111

Not if you support Israel's government because they are doing all that and more questionseverything Yesterday #112

Did ABC123Easy Yesterday #113

Wait-a-sec... mr715 Yesterday #127

Well, I'm glad to hear that! Just_Vote_Dem Yesterday #108

I think... 2naSalit Yesterday #121

I have a grandson with diabetes that lost his Medicaid and his food stamps questionseverything Yesterday #125

I worked in... 2naSalit Yesterday #126

The other two candidates combined are polling at less than 15% support questionseverything Yesterday #130

try again. The tattoo was gained in Split, Croatia stopdiggin Yesterday #63

Thank you! ABC123Easy Yesterday #80

Must be nice to be perfect and never make a mistake Ziggy Beans Yesterday #35

I wouldn't know ABC123Easy Yesterday #37

That's unfortunate. BComplex Yesterday #41

Is this guy a Nazi? RetiredParatrooper Yesterday #98

Not sure who that is ABC123Easy Yesterday #101

There isn't a swastika there guy RetiredParatrooper Yesterday #107

Did ABC123Easy Yesterday #109

LOL RetiredParatrooper 22 hrs ago #136

Disgusting! ABC123Easy 22 hrs ago #138

I must be stupid, then... regnaD kciN Yesterday #114

Check out ABC123Easy Yesterday #115

If it wasn't a Nazi tat MorbidButterflyTat 22 hrs ago #137

The tattoo looks like the state of Ohio now. Emile 22 hrs ago #140

If it wasn't a Nazi tat MorbidButterflyTat 22 hrs ago #145

Maybe because it's his skin and he felt like it. Next question? Emile 21 hrs ago #147

Yes Akakoji Yesterday #18

Amazing how all of this didn't come out during the primary season. AZLD4Candidate Yesterday #24

Yes, if this were substantial or important it would have been released long, long ago Ponietz Yesterday #27

Yep. And peope who want to believe the worst of democratic candidates seem to find their way to DU every BComplex Yesterday #43

It's still primary season, he's not the nominee yet. (n/t) thesquanderer Yesterday #33

Maine's primary is June 9th - next Tuesday FakeNoose Yesterday #38

Mills only suspended... 2naSalit Yesterday #48

Our primary is NEXT WEEK... 2naSalit Yesterday #45

I don't live in Maine. I'm just tried of this perfectly-timed swift boating bullshit and us falling into their traps AZLD4Candidate Yesterday #46

I do... 2naSalit Yesterday #51

then maybe correct the erroneous post ? you can still make your point - just with correct information. - - -(nt)- stopdiggin Yesterday #66

Since the vote has NOT happened YET, it is still primary season AZLD4Candidate Yesterday #69

They haven't had the primary yet, so he isn't the nominee MichMan Yesterday #53

He's not the freaking nominee!! Llewlladdwr Yesterday #55

Hence why I said "PRIMARY SEASON" AZLD4Candidate Yesterday #75

It is still a primary season since the primary has not happened yet. LisaL Yesterday #78

And the time before the general is known as election SEASON AZLD4Candidate Yesterday #81

Dude, you clearly referred to Platner as the nominee. Llewlladdwr Yesterday #87

Actually, yes. TBH. AZLD4Candidate Yesterday #104

Better, but your title is still wrong. Llewlladdwr Yesterday #119

I'm a social studies teacher. I know what ratfucking is. Been one for 20 years. AZLD4Candidate Yesterday #123

Don't want to be crapped on? Don't crap on others. Llewlladdwr Yesterday #129

... orangecrush Yesterday #89

It is a primary season. LisaL Yesterday #67

Well, as, a woman who has been 'groped' by a few men Joinfortmill Yesterday #29

At my 50th high school reunion, I talked to one woman MineralMan Yesterday #36

Once again, we see the same tired, old, GOP double-standard playbook dlk Yesterday #42

Ahem. I think what we might be talking about here are 'Democratic' standards ? stopdiggin Yesterday #56

We all get a say, if we choose to dlk 20 hrs ago #150

I thought he did very well during his interview with Hayes that aired yesterday on MSNOW. I'd vote for him if I beaglelover Yesterday #52

The responses are fascinating. SamuelAdams Yesterday #57

It's sad, isn't it? Llewlladdwr Yesterday #59

Wow. MorbidButterflyTat 22 hrs ago #139

I just re-read Jane Mayer's "The Case of Al Franken" pat_k Yesterday #61

Al Franken was an effective Democratic senator for nine years MorbidButterflyTat 22 hrs ago #143

I see the hallmarks of a smear. YMMV pat_k 20 hrs ago #149

Collins supports trump - that's a massive scandal even if the media ignores it. themaguffin Yesterday #64

The crime of the century. Kingofalldems Yesterday #72

Hear! Hear! pat_k Yesterday #73

The worst of the allegations are attributed to Lyndsey Fifield. And while they are definitely behavior Nanjeanne Yesterday #76

There are two other candidates in the primary. Llewlladdwr Yesterday #84

Im saying Platner is energizing Maine voters in a unique way. I have no idea what kind of baggage Nanjeanne Yesterday #86

Of course. Kingofalldems Yesterday #85

Yep and one person could be running a 100 different handles questionseverything Yesterday #90

She formed a group Ladies For Kavanaugh and worked hard to discredit Christine Blaise-Ford??. AloeVera Yesterday #93

Yes she did. She's quite an interesting piece of work. I don't go to X frequently any more but did Nanjeanne Yesterday #97

So a real Nazi who also doesn't believe women but expects us to believe her? AloeVera Yesterday #118

Except in the bat cave here on DU! Nanjeanne Yesterday #122

Wtf is going on? RoseTrellis Yesterday #131

Thank you! Llewlladdwr 23 hrs ago #135

Do you think the allegations will stick to Mr. Platner's candidacy? 0rganism 22 hrs ago #141

Negatory. mr715 22 hrs ago #146

From Newsweek: Starfury 21 hrs ago #148